2020 was a year of uncertainty
Are you wondering what next?
Are you wondering what next?
Introducing Evolve Confidence, a community-based resource, away from the pressure and noise of social media. Created and presented by
What happened to normal?
Most of us had found a way to get through life. Hide our insecurities. Get by.
We covered our fears and got on with the normal daily routine.
And then 2020 came along.
It challenged life and forced us to look at things a different way.
Our routines.
The way we worked and learnt.
How we interacted with each other.
It showed us how uncertain life is, and how uncomfortable that can be.
It bought the changes we need to make front and centre.
It gave us a choice.
We covered our fears and got on with the normal daily routine.
And then 2020 came along.
It challenged life and forced us to look at things a different way.
Our routines.
The way we worked and learnt.
How we interacted with each other.
It showed us how uncertain life is, and how uncomfortable that can be.
It bought the changes we need to make front and centre.
It gave us a choice.
Is it time for a change?
Have you ever found yourself thinking "right, this time I will...
make that change,
learn to say no,
make time for me,
apply for that job..."
Or maybe, it's more that this time "I will not...
overthink this,
doubt myself,
be stopped by my fear of failure."
I have. And yet even though I was certain that it would be different this time, when I was convinced l would make that change, even when I have started with gusto, down the line the habitual behaviours returned and before I know it, I reverted back to old ways.
Are you fed up with being fed up?
Frustrated with being stuck in a rut or feeling as though life is plateauing?
But know that your lack of confidence is stopping you from putting yourself first and making the changes you want.
make that change,
learn to say no,
make time for me,
apply for that job..."
Or maybe, it's more that this time "I will not...
overthink this,
doubt myself,
be stopped by my fear of failure."
I have. And yet even though I was certain that it would be different this time, when I was convinced l would make that change, even when I have started with gusto, down the line the habitual behaviours returned and before I know it, I reverted back to old ways.
Are you fed up with being fed up?
Frustrated with being stuck in a rut or feeling as though life is plateauing?
But know that your lack of confidence is stopping you from putting yourself first and making the changes you want.
We need to evolve!
I believe that we innately want to grow, otherwise we would have stayed in the cave with the spear and fire! We want to evolve and yet sometimes we get stuck.
We know what to do and yet we are still not doing it.
We then get frustrated and often give up, finding ourselves back where we started, although, this time, with a stronger inner critic telling us we shouldn't have bothered.
But we do need to bother.
We need to learn to adapt, even more so now than ever.
We need to make changes that are sustainable and resourceful.
Because if we are not evolving, we are revolving.
Why confidence?
To be confident you have to know what you are doing and have all the answers. You need to look smart, have a topical joke to hand, and be up with all that is happening in the world. Your friends and family are perfect and reflect your greatness in all that they do.
You must show your confidence but not let others know you are confident, otherwise you will come across as big headed and arrogant.
In short, to be confident, you have to perfect and get the balance right.
That's the confusion I hear when people start talking about confidence.
They know it is of value, and important to achieve in life, but there is a fine line, and if you get it wrong you are rejected. It is game over!
Well, what if that definition of a confident life is wrong?
What if you don't have to be perfect or have all the right answers?
What if there was another way, that is more supportive both of you, and those around you?
A way where you can be relaxed and enjoy life?
The opportunity to celebrate you but not at the expense of someone else?
For the last 5 years, I have been doing a Facebook Live every Monday night. And people were asking for more - to dive deeper into topics, for more resources and affordable ways to access coaching with me.
A place for them to evolve their confidence.
To stop feeling alone and unsupported.
To be part of a community.
To remove fear and self doubt.
A place to think openly.
A space to discuss and face life's curve balls together.
And so I created Evolve Confidence...
You must show your confidence but not let others know you are confident, otherwise you will come across as big headed and arrogant.
In short, to be confident, you have to perfect and get the balance right.
That's the confusion I hear when people start talking about confidence.
They know it is of value, and important to achieve in life, but there is a fine line, and if you get it wrong you are rejected. It is game over!
Well, what if that definition of a confident life is wrong?
What if you don't have to be perfect or have all the right answers?
What if there was another way, that is more supportive both of you, and those around you?
A way where you can be relaxed and enjoy life?
The opportunity to celebrate you but not at the expense of someone else?
For the last 5 years, I have been doing a Facebook Live every Monday night. And people were asking for more - to dive deeper into topics, for more resources and affordable ways to access coaching with me.
A place for them to evolve their confidence.
To stop feeling alone and unsupported.
To be part of a community.
To remove fear and self doubt.
A place to think openly.
A space to discuss and face life's curve balls together.
And so I created Evolve Confidence...
What is Evolve Confidence?
In 2018, I was hospitalised with stage 5 kidney failure and a non cancerous lump (fibroid) the size of a baby's head. This period of my life, uncomfortable and painful as it was, gave me time. Time to think, slow down and look at what I wanted to do.
As a coach, one of my main goals has always been to work with people on all levels, to help them from wherever they are, to see the true nature of who they are, not the BS that we create internally about ourselves.
The slower pace of being ill gave me the opportunity to look into how I could better support you. The idea of a membership site had been bubbling away for more than 5 years but the space to do it hadn't happened... until 2020!
As a coach, one of my main goals has always been to work with people on all levels, to help them from wherever they are, to see the true nature of who they are, not the BS that we create internally about ourselves.
The slower pace of being ill gave me the opportunity to look into how I could better support you. The idea of a membership site had been bubbling away for more than 5 years but the space to do it hadn't happened... until 2020!
Evolve confidence is a private community, offering monthly resources to support you and your life. You will be guided through evolving your confidence, so that you can become GROW & EVOLVE!
CHOOSE FROM TWO OPTIONS
Option 1
Grow with...
- Monthly LIVE call with Q&A - Each month we will focus on a topic, looking at different aspects and where we are in relation to it. We will dive deep into each theme, with practical solutions to the challenges we face.
- Monthly call recordings - Recordings from all our live calls will be available to revisit and replay at your leisure.
- Monthly challenge & accountability - To encourage that progression, each month there is a 7-day challenge followed by an accountability call. Your chance to embed real change.
- Members forum - A community space away from social media to share your insights and questions with others, in a safe and secure environment.
- Online courses - All members will have access to all my current and future online books and courses.
- Library - A huge collection of resources for you to watch/read including previous Evolve Confidence topics.
£48/mth
Option 2
Evolve with...
- Monthly LIVE call with Q&A - Each month we will focus on a topic, looking at different aspects and where we are in relation to it. We will dive deep into each theme, with practical solutions to the challenges we face.
- Monthly call recordings - Recordings from all our live calls will be available to revisit and replay at your leisure.
- Monthly challenge & accountability - To encourage that progression, each month there is a 7-day challenge followed by an accountability call. Your chance to embed real change.
- Members forum - A community space away from social media to share your insights and questions with others, in a safe and secure environment.
- Online courses - All members will have access to all my current and future online books and courses.
- Library - A huge collection of resources for you to watch/read including previous Evolve Confidence topics.
- Private coaching hotline to Jules - Your very own private space to post questions and comments and receive personalised online coaching support directly from Jules. Other members will not be able to see or read what you share in your Private Coaching area, giving you the safe and secure space to share what matters most.
- Monthly group coaching - In addition to the LIVE calls shared with other members, EVOLVE members will have a 90 minute live group coaching call once a month. Your chance to dive deeper into the topics and get LIVE coaching with Jules. Plus, you'll get to share your experiences directly with other EVOLVE members.
- Monthly group coaching recordings - Missed the call or want a replay? All the recordings from the live coaching calls will be available for you to watch later.
£97/mth
Please note: Prices may vary slightly depending on taxes in your location.
Which level is right for me?
The aim behind EVOLVE CONFIDENCE is to create an exclusive group that participates, engages and shapes the future of the community. This is a shared space and we want everyone to feel part of it.
That is why you will only ever pay the membership rate that you sign up to now. The rate you sign up to will never change**. In the future, we will open up the doors again, probably at a higher rate. But your rate ALWAYS remains the same.
Find out more about each level below. Simply click on the '+' symbol to reveal the content.
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Is "Grow" for me? |
If you are the kind of person that takes care of others, only wants the best for everyone else and yet has little time for themselves, then this is for you.
Perhaps you have an idea about what needs to change but little time to do it. At the moment, you are so busy taking care of others that you rarely fit on the list at all.
Being part of this level is about becoming aware of what you need and how to start making changes. Awareness is key. As Anthony de Mello said, "What you are aware of you have control over, what you are unaware of has control of you."
Each month we will have a theme. It could be introducing the confidence basics or a broader look at life. Through the month, you will participate in live calls and challenges and have access to resources like the library and forum to support you.
We will help you look at applying changes in your life with plenty of time to celebrate, acknowledge and evolve.
Being a Grow member means you taking steps even with a busy schedule. Knowing that the support and resources are there.
Perhaps you have an idea about what needs to change but little time to do it. At the moment, you are so busy taking care of others that you rarely fit on the list at all.
Being part of this level is about becoming aware of what you need and how to start making changes. Awareness is key. As Anthony de Mello said, "What you are aware of you have control over, what you are unaware of has control of you."
Each month we will have a theme. It could be introducing the confidence basics or a broader look at life. Through the month, you will participate in live calls and challenges and have access to resources like the library and forum to support you.
We will help you look at applying changes in your life with plenty of time to celebrate, acknowledge and evolve.
Being a Grow member means you taking steps even with a busy schedule. Knowing that the support and resources are there.
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Is "Evolve" for me? |
Maybe you have been looking at personal development for a while, even read self-help books, but not quite put them into practice. You know what to do but you are just not doing it. Sound like you? Then this gives you the opportunity to EVOLVE further.
With all the benefits of the Grow level, plus access to group coaching - this is your chance to deep dive into the content and discover how to make sustainable changes that will last.
To support you further, you'll also have private space - a hotline directly with Jules - to share your own thoughts, comments and questions.
If you are serious about wanting to do things differently - to think differently, to live differently - then this is the level for you.
*options to upgrade will be provided at a later date
**please note that if you decide to cancel your subscription and later want to return, it is likely that the price will have increased. But as long as you stay a member, you will only pay the rate you signed up to.
**please note that if you decide to cancel your subscription and later want to return, it is likely that the price will have increased. But as long as you stay a member, you will only pay the rate you signed up to.
What will it give me?
You'll have access to a private membership area and exclusive, private group forum, away from social media, where you can access resources, participate in LIVE calls and challenges, and have open, honest and healthy discussions with people who are experiencing similar (or different!) personal growth.
Your membership runs month-to-month, so you are free to cancel at anytime. But we want this to be a space for sharing, encouraging and celebrating our progress... and we hope that will be a reason for you to want to stay!
Your membership runs month-to-month, so you are free to cancel at anytime. But we want this to be a space for sharing, encouraging and celebrating our progress... and we hope that will be a reason for you to want to stay!
What can I expect?
- A community centred on kindness, maturity and growth.
- Easily accessible resources that you can dip into whenever you want, as many times as you need to.
- Relevant and powerful content that responds to feedback from the group AND what is going on in the world.
- A open-minded community where you can share your experiences and ask for help.
- A unique opportunity to get the support you need and be one of the earliest members.
What is it not?
- A place for anyone looking too blame others or chastise themselves for how life is.
- Anyone who wants someone to do it for them. We provide the cookbook, you have to do the cooking!
- A quick fix! This community is about exactly that - evolution... and that doesn't happen overnight!
- Aligned with any particular viewpoint. It is completely inclusive (and welcomes open conversations with people who believe differently).
- An easy option - what you get out will be directly proportional to what you put in.
About Jules
I dream of the day I can resign as The Confidence Coach.
Not so I can flop on the sofa and watch Netflix all day in a onesie, but because I'm living in a world where people believe in themselves so much that confidence coaching is obsolete.
A world in which people turn within for approval and find unwavering love for themselves. A world that is full of kindness, authenticity and compassion. I believe in that world and know we have the potential to create it.
Yet I look around and see how many people have lost faith in themselves - or have never been shown how to have it in the first place. I see how we search and grasp for someone or something outside of ourselves to give us love and approval. I also notice how we're realising that the way we have been conditioned to live is no longer sustainable.
That it is time for radical change - an evolution into confidence as our natural way of being... and I am one of the Evolutionaries.
Not so I can flop on the sofa and watch Netflix all day in a onesie, but because I'm living in a world where people believe in themselves so much that confidence coaching is obsolete.
A world in which people turn within for approval and find unwavering love for themselves. A world that is full of kindness, authenticity and compassion. I believe in that world and know we have the potential to create it.
Yet I look around and see how many people have lost faith in themselves - or have never been shown how to have it in the first place. I see how we search and grasp for someone or something outside of ourselves to give us love and approval. I also notice how we're realising that the way we have been conditioned to live is no longer sustainable.
That it is time for radical change - an evolution into confidence as our natural way of being... and I am one of the Evolutionaries.
In 2003, I left my ten-year career in the theatre due to burnout and soon realised that the art of pretence wasn't going to cut it in real life. I knew the only chance I had at a fulfilling life was to develop genuine confidence. Over fifteen years, I've spent thousands of hours studying confidence and the human brain, and have worked with thousands of clients from all walks of life - from students to CEOs.
I'm now considered one of the UK's top confidence coaches and speak on stages virtually and in person worldwide. In corporations like Swarovski, Nestle, CoxAutomotive and 3M.
I've received the accolade of being the top female coach in Britain's Best Top Coach awards and I've appeared on BBC TV and radio to speak about confidence and happiness.
If you're ready to believe in yourself and pursue YOUR greatest passions in life, then I invite you to be part of the Confidence Evolution with me.
And I'll put my onesie back in the cupboard for just a little while longer.
I'm now considered one of the UK's top confidence coaches and speak on stages virtually and in person worldwide. In corporations like Swarovski, Nestle, CoxAutomotive and 3M.
I've received the accolade of being the top female coach in Britain's Best Top Coach awards and I've appeared on BBC TV and radio to speak about confidence and happiness.
If you're ready to believe in yourself and pursue YOUR greatest passions in life, then I invite you to be part of the Confidence Evolution with me.
And I'll put my onesie back in the cupboard for just a little while longer.
Please note: Prices may vary slightly depending on taxes in your location.
© Jules Wyman - Positive Belief 2022